Did you ever wonder, why no matter how hard you try, things are just not moving on, in the direction that you want them to move on in? Why some people are so much more successful and lucky than you are in your life and it just seems to not to be fair, or not your destiny to also finally make it to where you want to be?
Well, in the universe everything is working in a perfect harmony and balance! Such a thing as luck doesn’t exist!
We get what we ask for, or to say it more clear: We get what we think, we deserve and we get treated the way, we think we deserve it!
So, success is a matter of attitude and if we are successful or not, can be controlled by us and is in our own hands and has nothing to do with being lucky! It gets all controlled by our own power and our own mind!
Lots of people have questions like: Will I finally find Mr. or Mrs. Right? Will I get children and be happy? Will I be successful at work and make lots of money? Will I stay healthy, or get healthy again? And so on!
The answer to all this questions is simply inside of one and each of us! If we are successful, wanted, healthy, rich, yes even young looking, … it all depends on how we see our self’s, in this big puzzle of life and how much from all that treasure, we think we truly deserve and we worth! It depends also, on how much self confidence, self appreciation and self love we have!
So the question should not be: “Will my wishes and dreams come true?” The real question should be: “Do I truly believe, that I deserve all that what I am dreaming of and that I worth it, without feeling guilty, for being more successful than others that I might even know?”
What kind of value do you give yourself, your own needs and dreams? Or do you put your needs and dreams behind the dreams, needs and wishes of others? How much do you truly believe you worth?
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If you would be a product in a store, let’s say “a box full of surprises”, which should get sell in a auction, together with many other boxes; how high would be the start price you would tag on yourself and under which category of boxes would you put yourself in? With which category do you have the most things in common?
Would you belong more in the Category A?:
You would believe that you are nothing special, between all the other boxes, which all look the same, or even much better than you! That they all got produced in the same factory than you; or some might be even handmade and because of that, they are more high-class, pretty, or better than you ever will, or could be!
You would feel less, unattractive, stupid, fat, or less rich, next to the other boxes and because of that, you would feel insecurity, jealousy, intimidation and like you are always standing in there shadows.
You would maybe even feel hate and have negative feelings, thoughts and wishes for them and the need to talk bad behind their backs. You would feel discriminated, disrespected and treated bad by them. You wish to be one of the better and cool boxes and for that you would be even open to let them treat you bad, command you around like a marionette, take advantage from you, intimate you or make fun out of you and your insecurity and stupidity!
At the same time you would feel admiration for the cool boxes, because they are living the way you wish to live and being the way you wish to be, having the life you have been always dreaming of, but all those coolness seams simply out of your reach and league. You cannot compare yourself with those, because they seem to be so much better and so much more confident than you!
You would believe that you just deserve a cheap price as a box in the auction house, to at least get sell at all and not be the only one, or one of the last ones, which would be left in the shelves, so you would take whatever you can get, no matter if you like it or not, whatever it would be, it would still be better than nothing!
Unable to reach anything by yourself in your life; always depending on the charity and kindness of others, that they give you the chance and motivate you to believe, that you worth something and that you can get somewhere, in this life! Self destructive, depress and always ready for negative things to come on top of you and to happen! Low energy, powerless, servile and believing that you don’t deserve anything better. Taking advantage of whatever you can get. Grabbing the whole arm, when someone offer you a helping hand. Treating others bad, which are under you or less than you, to let your own insecurity, no satisfaction and miserable feelings out on someone! Not knowing how to handle real power! Not motivating others, being aggressive and full of anger and complexes, scared of your own power and of your own abilities! Not knowing how to keep the balance!
All this doesn’t sound good!
Or would you belong more in the Category B?:
Between all the other boxes out there, you would believe that you are a very special one; which deserves the highest possible price and the best treatment and care, because it is beautiful and absolutely perfect exactly the way it is; a unique peace; built in very high quality hand craft, of a real professional maestro; out of the best and most exclusive materials and with lots of love!
You would be thankful to your creator for all what he has done for your; feel proud of what you are; proud of all the surprises and talents which would be in your box; have self admiration for how far you made it on your own, or with the help of others; be glad and enjoy what you already reach in your life; you would have self appreciation and have respect, care and love for yourself and all the other boxes out there; without being snobby, priggish, or arrogant!
You would be a great example for others and help them to also find their way and their destiny in life; without taking advantage, or having any bad or negative thoughts in mind!
That would show that you understand the true meaning of life and that you are connected, with the wisdom of the universe! It would also show that you become a real box, which is connected with his higher self and can let all his energies float free to reach the device purpose! Absolutely nothing would be unreachable or impossible for you, you could reach for the stars in the sky and get only the best of the best from what life has to offer you, as long as you really want it and send all your concentrated energies and passion to reach your goals and as long as you would be willing, to work hard for it and say YES to life, YES to yourself and YES to your needs and wishes! And a clear NO to everything which doesn’t match to your creative, free and independent movement and No to everything which would not make you happy and which would be not good for you or your soul!
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As an example: If somebody, is already use to eat french-fries, hamburger and pizza, the whole time and already give up the fight against it and accepted that this is the reality of his life, then this person doesn’t have to wonder why he is not getting the caviar, lobster and champagne from life!
But if somebody is, as an example, strictly vegetarian and this person is not willing to eat anything else, than vegetarian food and not willing to make any kind of compromises; then no matter where this person would go, it would get served with vegetarian food; because this wish is already truly saved in the computer of the brain and this person send concentrated energies, to get that and nothing else than that and would be willing to do all necessary effort, to get it!
The essence of all the life is concentrated love and life energy! Nobody is born evil!
Depending on which lessons, we still have to learn from our life on earth, we get already born under different kind of life circumstances.
During our life time, we go through good and bad experiences, to learn our lessons of life! The character of a human being, or even of an animal, gets shaped and build, depending on what kind of experiences it had to go through, during the life time and depending in how well this being learned and understood the lessons it got!
When we come to earth and get born in material shape, we come on earth like a empty clear, green, or brown bottle. Depending on what gets filed in us, the contents in our bottle, will taste good, or bad. Sure we are caring on the Karma of our past transformations with us, but we still have the chance to clear our old Karma and make it better! (Karma means action and the consequences of our action. Positive actions, have good consequences and negative actions, have bad consequences, for us. Our Karma, we sometimes carry on with our self’s, through many transformations.)
If a piece of rock, get charged every day, with concentrated negative energies, hate and violence, it will reflect, exactly those kind of energies again! But if you charge every single day, a piece of rock, with the energy of light, love, peace and harmony, then it will reflect, exactly that to the outside!
Now if somebody wants to recharge the rock, which got charged with all that negativity and charge it instead with positive energy; first of all, it would have to take all the negativity out of it, from its root!
You cannot charge something, which is already filled, it has to get empty again, first!
Important is to always fix and heal the problem on its root, otherwise you just treat the symptoms and not the origin of the problem! For that we have to dig really deep and find the root at first and make sure that we take it out completely, without leaving anything behind. That can take a long, very painful and uncomfortable process.
Clearing all the negativity, bad habits and bad experiences of the past, is kind of like cleaning the hard drive of a computer, or opening a old purulent wound, to make it finally get healed completely! It brings us discomfort and wakes up all the bad memories and fears from our old past, from the childhood, …, but that is the only way to let our wounds get finally healed and to stop carrying on all this heavy weight of the past around with us, by treating the wound and the illness of our mind, on its root and facing the problems and not running away from them anymore!
The secret of a healthy life, is to keep the perfect balance, the yin and the yang, the good and bad, …
The misbalance in the soul, is what creates us problems, depressions, illnesses, …
In my way of believe and seeing life, all the physical and mental illnesses, have their roots in our karma and in our mind and at the end, all of them got created by our self, so the best recipe for a healthy and happy life, is to start searching within our soul, for the damage and the misbalance and fix it from its roots!
With all the best wishes for your life’s,
Pandora Michèle Lorenz
February, 24.2009
