My break up was bad, i didnt know what was happening half the time and i later found out that my ex, whom i love with all my heart was seeing someone else behind my back. For the second time.

i have been a fan of this song for a long long time, so when i heard about him cheating on me the first time, i was devastated, bui i remembered what india said. that we have to forgive. so i took him back and love him unconditionally.

i only found out about the second lie, a month after we broke up. and i cursed him. i called him names that i never thot i would. i was so furious. i said i would never forgive him, and i hope he would have a miserable life.

but after that when i was in my car, i heard the song again. and i felt really sad.

i dont want to carry anger. i dont want him to be sad. because i think if you love someone, you have to let them be happy. and if happiness means not being with you, you have no choice but to let him go. i dont want him to fall for me because of pity and all.

so i let him go, it was painful and all. but i know i'm gonna be ok.
because i have india.

so thank you india.

I got the call today, I didn't wanna hear
But I knew that it would come
An old true friend of ours was talkin' on the phone
She said you found someone
And I thought of all the bad luck,
And the struggles we went through
And how I lost me and you lost you
What are these voices outside love's open door
Make us throw off our contentment
And beg for something more?

I'm learning to live without you now
But I miss you sometimes
The more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning again
I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

These times are so uncertain
There's a yearning undefined
...People filled with rage
We all need a little tenderness
How can love survive in such a graceless age
The trust and self-assurance that can lead to happiness
They're the very things we kill, I guess
Pride and competition cannot fill these empty arms
And the work I put between us,
Doesn't keep me warm

I'm learning to live without you now
But I miss you, Baby
The more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I figured out, I have to learn again
I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But everything changes
And my friends seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

There are people in your life who've come and gone
They let you down and hurt your pride
Better put it all behind you; life goes on
You keep carrin' that anger, it'll eat you inside

I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
Because the flesh will get weak
And the ashes will scatter
So I'm thinkin' about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

THIS IS MY JAM : ]

hi there...i really really love this song and was very thankful to have come across it. you see, i recently came from a bad break-up and this song never fails to make me feel good despite the circumstances. that's why it has been the highlight of my day to go online and listen to it each and every single day. i really hope you can put back the complete version you once uploaded...i'm really hoping you'll consider...thanks in advance.

I got the call today, I didn't wanna hear
But I knew that it would come
An old true friend of ours was talkin' on the phone
She said you found someone
And I thought of all the bad luck,
And the struggles we went through
And how I lost me and you lost you
What are these voices outside love's open door
Make us throw off our contentment
And beg for something more?

I'm learning to live without you now
But I miss you sometimes
The more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning again
I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

These times are so uncertain
There's a yearning undefined
...People filled with rage
We all need a little tenderness
How can love survive in such a graceless age
The trust and self-assurance that can lead to happiness
They're the very things we kill, I guess
Pride and competition cannot fill these empty arms
And the work I put between us,
Doesn't keep me warm

I'm learning to live without you now
But I miss you, Baby
The more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I figured out, I have to learn again
I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But everything changes
And my friends seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

There are people in your life who've come and gone
They let you down and hurt your pride
Better put it all behind you; life goes on
You keep carrin' that anger, it'll eat you inside

I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
Because the flesh will get weak
And the ashes will scatter
So I'm thinkin' about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

the more i know, the less i understand...

I like this song but, do not this version. It should be The Eagles version by Don Henley.

♪♫I've been learning to live without you now
But I miss you sometimes
The more I know, the less I understand♪♫


- forgiveness even if u dont love me anymore
love sex and the sity..^__^

can you send me this song? to b5addicted1narhx-@hotmail.com . thanks so much

i love sex and the city =] im glad they had this song as the preview song =]